Middle Age and Bipolar

This last six months, Ive lost my voice. In high school I used to call these altos "truncated sopranos". Ah-huh. What happens in 30 years. My choir director at church just said it was my age and that everybody loses their voice in middle age- especially women. I do like the alto part, don't get me wrong. It's just that I can't sing above a D - on a good day. Which brings me to yesterday. I was trying to tweeze some unwanted hairs out of my cheek when I noticed that my whole cheek skin moved around and not the way it should! Im just feeling very middle-aged and don't know how this intertwines with my bipolar. I have crazy mood swings and hallucinations to contend with as it is.